Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Truthfulness and Honesty - Compiled by Vishnukanta das from books and lectures of Srila Prabhupada



Truthfulness is glorified in all scriptures and by all great personalities.

There is nothing more sinful than untruthfulness. Because of this mother earth once said, "I can bear any heavy thing except a person who is a liar." SB 8.20.4

One who speaks dharma must know the truth.  The knower of truth is one who sees through all deception. Manu Smriti

If a brahmana is not truthful, all his claims as a brahmana at once become null and void. SB 1.17.41 purport

A brahmana will speak truth even to his enemy. If the enemy comes, if a rogue comes, “How much money you have got in your box?” a brahmana will say, “Sir, I have got one hundred dollars.” (Laughs) Just like the other day, in the Customs examination in Bombay, our Brahmänanda Mahäräja was asked, “What is the value?” “No, I have purchased it.” “What is the value?” “Two hundred dollars.” He did not say that “I am using it for long time.” No. “It is new. I have purchased.” That’s all right. Srimad-Bhagavatam Lecture 1.5.22 Vrindavan, August 3, 1974

Devotees of Lord should speak truth always. Honesty means truthfulness, and also fairness in dealing with others, and not engaging in fraud or deceit. It means no hidden motives and therefore no duplicity in dealings. An honest person will never misstate, misrepresent, or hide the truth from others so as to gain an unfair advantage over them.

Someone who is not honest or straightforward will not be trusted by others. Especially, such a person will not be accepted as a devotee. Therefore those who purport to teach the highest truth, being a devotee of Lord, should at least be considered reliable in ordinary, wordly matters.

Another facet of truthfulness is to keep promises. This applies to everyday obligations, such as agreeing to meet a person at a certain time, as well as major commitments, such as the vows of initiation. It is reprehensible to promise something that one has no intention of fulfilling.

Devotees are honest in regard to their own shortcomings and do not present themselves as more advanced than they actually are for the sake of maintaining false prestige. If a devotee makes a mistake (as all people are prone to do), he should not compound it by trying to deny or hide the error or by making excuses. Rather, he should be willing to claim responsibility for his negligence, and take steps to rectify himself and solve any problems caused by the mistake. This is a symptom of integrity, and a cornerstone of good character. In Vedic culture, a brahmana does not lose his position by making a mistake, but by being untruthful.

It is sometimes argued that in preaching, the end justifies the means, and that therefore a book distributor or preacher may tell a lie in order to engage a person in Krishna's service. This is not untrue, but Srila Prabhupada was also aware of the harmful effects this could have. He therefore advised devotees to preach without resorting to roundabout means.

We may do anything for Krishna, but that is supposed to be reserved for very advanced experts in Krishna Consciousness—they know how to catch the big fish without themselves getting wet. So it is not very much advisable to make lies just to sell a book. If we simply stick to describing how wonderful is Krishna, then whatever we may lie or exaggerate, that will not be a lie! But other things, lies, they will not help us to train ourselves in truthfulness. Lie to some, not to others—that is not a good philosophy. Rather the brahmanas are always truthful, even to their enemies. There is sufficient merit in our books that if you simply describe them sincerely to anyone, they will buy. That art you must develop—not art of lying. Convince them to give by your preaching the Absolute Truth, not by tricking. That is the more mature stage of development of Krishna Consciousness.  Letter to Sri Govinda, 25 December, 1972

We may take money for Krsna using any method of beg, borrow and steal, but the more advanced understanding of Krsna consciousness process is by telling the truth in a very palatable way. That is the most successful system…We may tell any damn thing to induce people to give us money on Krsna's behalf—that is not the point. The point is that by saying lies, the less advanced neophyte devotees may become entangled or disturbed in their minds by it. Of course by their collecting more money and giving to Krsna, He will relieve them of all anxiety of telling lies. But not everyone is able to catch the big fish without themselves becoming wet. Letter to Bali-mardana, 31 December, 1972

These dishonest methods must be stopped. It is hampering our reputation all over the world. Money collected for feeding people in India should be collected under the name ISKCON Food Relief. Not any other name. And every farthing of that money must be sent to India, or better yet, buy food grains there and ship them here and we will distribute. But every farthing collected for that purpose must be used for that purpose. Letter to: Rupanuga -- Bombay 9 January, 1975

Discretion
Truthfulness should be tempered with discretion. For instance, it is generally unadvisable that a senior devotee experiencing spiritual difficulties reveal them to subordinates, lest their delicate faith in Kåñëa consciousness be endangered. A senior devotee in difficulty would be better advised to make known his exigency to a trusted peer, who is anyway more likely to be able to help him.

There is also no need to divulge the truth of others’ failings if no-one will benefit by doing so. Indeed, to unnecessarily and continually dwell on others’ faults is a form of prajalpa that is most destructive both to the speaker and hearers.

Discretion should also be exercised in revealing internal policies and problems of devotees to outsiders, or even to devotees who are not fully commited. Not everyone is meant to know everything, nor can everyone understand everything, nor is everything everybodies business. Although some modern psychological theories advocate complete openness in everything, the Vedic sages do not recommend such impractical liberality.
Certain circumstances may even warrant deliberate hiding of the truth.

In flattering a woman to bring her under control, in joking, in a marriage ceremony, in earning one’s livelihood, when one’s life is in danger, in protecting cows and brahminical culture, or in protecting a person from an enemy’s hand, falsity is never condemned. SB 8.19.43